No my tone didn't change.

And you can defend your arguments all you desire in the belief you are right...
And I do believe your intent is not malign ..really.
Its part nuance, part presentation, part foot in mouth, part wilful ignorance, part oblivious ..to the potential emotional reaction of the company you are speaking with, and a great huge heaping dose of talking before thinking and not first thinking before talking...
and assessing the ramification and reaction of your words in front of others and their personal issues with your thoughtless effrontery.

That...
Maemish...
Is exactly the issue.

Hell... You don't see a problem with talking out loud in a Muslim gathering about your Jewish family member ?
Of course everyone went silent...
Of course everyone turned and looked at you
Of course it was a "party killer".

You are lucky that they obviously thought you were an oblivious fool or madman...
But fool's luck doesn't last forever.
Sooner or later...
Talking out loud before foreseeing your words may upset others is not going to end well for you..
Keep it up.
And sooner or later ..
the odds are against you...
tjat you end up saying the wrong thing,
at the wrong time,
in the wrong place,
to the wrong people...
And it won't end well...

There is no way any of the things I mentioned about different cultures and races in my last post in conjunction with what you said...
That many wouldn't find offensive.
None of them were directed at my culture or race ...
but even I found them to be too much... man.
I couldn't defend your stance if I was paid to...
Except on medical grounds..
Being an insanity plea and / or suicidal death wish complex...

You wish to think it only me with this "opinion"
Juiceme tried to get through to you on this already...
It isn't just me here trying..
It isn't taking a swing at you that I am doing..
you just don't get it obviously...

Keep right on standing up for what you believe is polite courteous discourse Maemish...
(throws hands up in the air, shakes head, walks away)