Anyone ?
I really can't believe there are no users that have had issues with privacy or "hidden" settings on your messaging accounts as I explained above.

I really hate that the N900 sets the "online" status for a Facebook account every time its turned on (the N900). I want to be "online" on Facebook, but not all users on FB to see me as "online".

On the other hand, I only want users I approve (or that are on my contacts/friends lists) to be able to send me messages, not every other single random user out there.