I'm sure it will invariably get stated... but even this isn't helping.

Back in the iTT days (internettablettalk.com) days, people helped each other. There were some angry posters; however people genuinely helped each other.

In these cases, the anger is coming from not having answers and having less patience.

I've more than likely admittedly have added to some of that - my grievances are somewhat well known to some/those that pay attention - but to let some things continue as they have... it has to stop.

Disarray leads to anarchy and disenfranchisement. Would be a damn shame to see this place disintegrate into some argumentative haven for those that have little positive to say and are all negative.

It's a community. We can change the entire place by starting with ourselves.