Just wanted to let you know that every time you call my grown friend a possible scammer or describe things you do not get as fails, my heart and brain sting hefty.

You clearly overestimate the meaning of chen writing here. He thought he was partying among like-minded until someone started to puke into his flower vases. Just the party is over. Work continues.

Bye for now and best wishes for you to find some trust and fulfilment!