I'm still pretty much a newbie myself even though I'm also pretty ancient here as well.

Whenever I have a question, I usually try to post a screenshot because I don't know what I'm really looking at.

Here's a screen grabber app if you don't have one already.
http://tuomas.kulve.fi/blogstuff/mae...rabber.install

Take a few screenshots of what is troubling you and upload them over at imageshack.us.