I'm not sure what you are trying to accomplish here, Dan, or why you are choosing this forum to try to accomplish it. Are you sure you're talking to the right people?
Personally I did have very conflicting feelings but ended up with the one saying "They're doing what we wanted them to do and even further". I spent a year and more on Mer and all the things I learnt in there, I can use in MeeGo. Personally and professionally. Now, there's no doubt - MeeGo is the way ahead. We know the future now, before we didn't. Makes for better planning.