For me - a hard relationship has been a gift. I have been damaged in many ways from very early and have grown to be something one should not be. Sticking in this situation and relationship has piece by piece forced me to change to a more stable, mature and somehow mentally healthy person. But could not offer this medicine to others. So many side effects and possible symptoms that unless you really need this hard treatment better be without.

My way to cope with is: "Let's see how things are after five years". And sorry for off topic. Gonna stop now. Darn. Did it again. Thought this was facebook or something.