Estel, you are very vocal in this discussion here, and that's OK. But you do it in an aggressive way, and you demand that we respect your opinion while seemingly showing little respect for other people's opinion.

Consider that others are less likely to participate in this discussion if a certain hostility threshold is reached. Perhaps that's your goal, but it's not mine.

Everyone is different, please keep that in mind.

I apologize for having to talk to you in such a "lecturing" way, I am sure you know all of this already and probably just forget about it in the heat of moment.