My phone still vibrates when sending a chat/sms/email notification even though all the vibrate options are off. Just wondering if this is normal. I usually turn that stuff off to conserve battery, and I don't really like it either.

I saw a workaround suggesting you can enable+disable, & then restart to get it going.
Or was it enable, restart, & then disable... I can't recall, try both.
Also search bug-tracker, think a report has been lodged, but if not you should definitely lodge it.
http://harmattan-bugs.nokia.com/