ach..
my judgement?
stressing over my appraisal and what I think?

NOW you are pissing me off Maemish.
Judging work isn't me.
Judging people for who they are isn't me.
(However getting royally pissed off at others behaviour to one another or to myself .. and vocally saying so , can sometimes be me...accepting and listening to well meaning criticism of me is also important a balance..and not an easy one )

Judging and opinion are 2 different things...

I gave my opinion , what I felt and think , personally. "I liked it"

Judging is arbitrary such as the statement "It stunk, it sucks, it's good, it's bad" ..it isn't an opinion , just a coarse statement of judgement that isn't meant to reflect a personal view, but impose a universal view.
Judging sucks ...(which is a judgement on judging ) hahaha

I most certainly do not wish any kind of influence, where another is anxious to such a degree. and I am a prime reason for it.

Like most others here.. and in my immediate offline life,
yours and fellow members opinions are important to me ...yes.
Your view of me positively of me is important to me ....yes.
and your view negatively of me is just as valid and important to me..
But no opinion good or bad or neutral trumps any other.
Any other approach on the topic of " the importance of the opinions of another" leads to ruin for someone inevitably...in one form or another.
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Soooo...just quit that sh#t now....please and thank you.
No need to be anxious about my opinion of you or what you do.
I am not that ..that.."base" a person/

My opinion stands "I liked it" ...now calm down, have a drink and chillax