nothings happening for any of them and i cant seem to flash using virtual xp
Have you removed the battery, waited a minute and then put it back in? I know that is standard operating procedure but you don't mention what you did between the battery reaching full discharge and the failed flash attempt with virtual XP.
If so, this is after the OS has started and will not interfere with your ability to flash.. that'll be a windows problem or a battery low problem, possibly!
Also, try booting with the keyboard closed.. See if it skips past the menu