Its a bug in the standard media player since 1.1 in jan, apparentely fixed in 1.2..
Edit: Tried to find the bug number but can't, can anyone find it???
Thanks, thats all I needed. Proves my assumption right, nokia ballsed it up again. Sweet work.
P.S. I did post this months ago and no one could help, yes I have all the decoders and extra decoders, and no my router is MAC address limited to my devices, so its not been "Hijacked for bandwidth" whatever you think that is.