hey actually i dunno wat happnd but i know that i messed wit x terminal and i lost "Phone" option from Settings-connectivity, plz help

Bump... Can anybody help, please?

Any ideas what you messed with?

I would say: go and reflash. Will be easiest (for us all).
If you want to go the hard way, we would really need some more info ...

e.g.: post output of
ls -l /usr/lib/hildon-control-panel
ls -l /usr/share/applications/hildon-control-panel

/home/user # ls -l /usr/lib/hildon-control-panel
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 19704 Dec 19 2009 connui-cellular-operator-cpa.so
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 26 Sep 10 2010 libasconfigapplet.so -> libasconfigapplet.so.0.0.0
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 26 Sep 10 2010 libasconfigapplet.so.0 -> libasconfigapplet.so.0.0.0
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 56584 Jun 10 2010 libasconfigapplet.so.0.0.0
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 3948 Jul 18 2010 libbooscreentpanelplugin.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 20340 Jan 28 2010 libbtsettings.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 11349 Mar 14 2012 libcpaboutcssu.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 18624 Feb 3 2010 libcpdatetime.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 17200 Sep 16 2009 libcpdevice.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 18692 Jul 2 2010 libcpdevicelock.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 12212 Feb 14 2011 libcpdisplay.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 14840 Oct 13 2009 libcpfmtx.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 18780 Feb 5 2010 libcplanguageregional.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 39456 Sep 15 2009 libcpmemory.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 10028 Feb 11 2011 libcpnotificationlight.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 37372 Jul 21 2010 libcpprofiles.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 14232 May 19 2009 libcptextinput.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 9996 Apr 7 2012 libcptvout.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 9032 Jul 23 14:43 libcpusbmode.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 27168 Jul 1 2010 libinternetsettings.so
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 64 Dec 30 18:16 libled-pattern-editor.so -> /opt/maemo/usr/lib/hildon-control-panel/libled-pattern-editor.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 19652 Nov 11 2009 liblocation_applet.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 5092 Sep 19 2011 libmaemosec_certman_applet.so
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 23 Sep 10 2010 libosso-accounts.so -> librtcom-accounts-ui.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 130564 Jun 3 2010 libosso_maesync_ui.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 4440 Jun 29 2010 libpersonalisation.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 32772 Jul 15 2010 librtcom-accounts-ui.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 3780 Feb 11 2010 libsharingapplet.so
-rwxrwxr-x 1 root root 7408 Dec 7 2010 libtheme-customizer-ui.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 7532 Sep 8 14:41 operator-name-cbs-cpa.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 10904 Nov 5 2011 presence-notifier-cp.so
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 4488 Jan 7 2010 tscalib.so
/home/user #

/home/user # ls -l /usr/share/applications/hildon-control-pa
nel
drwxr-xr-x 2 root root 232 Nov 23 08:35 apporder
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 233 Jul 18 2010 bootscreen.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 243 Dec 19 2009 connui-cellular-operator-cpa.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 182 Feb 16 2011 cpaboutcssu.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 248 Feb 3 2010 cpdatetime.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 194 Sep 16 2009 cpdevice.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 219 Jul 2 2010 cpdevicelock.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 220 Feb 14 2011 cpdisplay.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 255 Oct 13 2009 cpfmtx.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 260 Feb 5 2010 cplanguageregional.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 220 Sep 15 2009 cpmemory.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 218 Feb 11 2011 cpnotificationlight.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 248 Jul 21 2010 cpprofiles.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 242 May 19 2009 cptextinput.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 225 Apr 7 2012 cptvout.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 150 Jul 23 14:43 cpusbmode.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 297 Feb 10 2011 led-pattern-editor.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 228 Jun 10 2010 libasconfigapplet.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 253 Nov 11 2009 location-cp.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 290 Sep 19 2011 maemosec_certman_applet.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 254 Sep 8 14:41 operator-name-cbs-cpa.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 222 Jan 28 2010 osso-connectivity-ui-btsettings.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 232 Jul 1 2010 osso-connectivity-ui-iapsettings.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 211 Jun 3 2010 osso-maesync-ui.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 251 Jun 29 2010 personalisation.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 223 Nov 5 2011 presence-notifier-cp.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 200 Jul 15 2010 rtcom-accounts-ui.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 241 Feb 11 2010 sharing-accounts.desktop
-rwxrwxr-x 1 root root 217 Dec 7 2010 theme-customizer-ui.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 221 Jan 7 2010 tscalibrate.desktop
/home/user #

/home/user # ls -l /usr/share/applications/hildon-control-pa
nel
drwxr-xr-x 2 root root 232 Nov 23 08:35 apporder
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 233 Jul 18 2010 bootscreen.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 243 Dec 19 2009 connui-cellular-operator-cpa.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 182 Feb 16 2011 cpaboutcssu.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 248 Feb 3 2010 cpdatetime.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 194 Sep 16 2009 cpdevice.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 219 Jul 2 2010 cpdevicelock.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 220 Feb 14 2011 cpdisplay.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 255 Oct 13 2009 cpfmtx.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 260 Feb 5 2010 cplanguageregional.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 220 Sep 15 2009 cpmemory.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 218 Feb 11 2011 cpnotificationlight.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 248 Jul 21 2010 cpprofiles.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 242 May 19 2009 cptextinput.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 225 Apr 7 2012 cptvout.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 150 Jul 23 14:43 cpusbmode.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 297 Feb 10 2011 led-pattern-editor.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 228 Jun 10 2010 libasconfigapplet.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 253 Nov 11 2009 location-cp.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 290 Sep 19 2011 maemosec_certman_applet.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 254 Sep 8 14:41 operator-name-cbs-cpa.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 222 Jan 28 2010 osso-connectivity-ui-btsettings.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 232 Jul 1 2010 osso-connectivity-ui-iapsettings.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 211 Jun 3 2010 osso-maesync-ui.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 251 Jun 29 2010 personalisation.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 223 Nov 5 2011 presence-notifier-cp.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 200 Jul 15 2010 rtcom-accounts-ui.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 241 Feb 11 2010 sharing-accounts.desktop
-rwxrwxr-x 1 root root 217 Dec 7 2010 theme-customizer-ui.desktop
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 221 Jan 7 2010 tscalibrate.desktop
/home/user #

@sixwheeledbeast
actually i dunno i did type something apt-get purge vlc and a big list came and and i selected Y but i remember that it was uninstalling community-pr something but i stopped it with ctrl+c and did apt-get -f install and some packages i installed again but i dunno how many pachages exactly removed, and i got no problem till now like boot loot etc

Looks like you are missing at least the files:
/usr/lib/hildon-control-panel/libcellularsettings.so
and
/usr/share/applications//hildon-control-panel/connui-cellular-settings.desktop

But could be more damage ...

I would try to find these in a package from repo and reinstall this/those package(s).

--edit
OK, took me 5 seconds to find the package.
Here is the spoon fed:

Oh, dear.
So we are back at my first proposal: do a reflash!
Or find all oddities and solve them manually.